Day 33 and 34: Friends, barátok, prieteni

Attila is really interested in starting a ministry with some of the children from Peris, that came to our English classes in Gornesti, so we spent Thursday afternoon with them playing soccer and English games. We mainly are just establishing relationships with them right now because although we had them in class, Attila had never met any of them before, so he really wants to begin to work with them like he does with the children in Gornesti and Apalina. They really are sweet children - we taught them how to play "Wink 'Em" and they LOVED it.

We came home from Harghita this week to a problem in Apalina. The church members are undergoing quite a bit of difficulty right now. Apparently, there was a misunderstanding between one of the members and his wife(who is not a believer) and it turned into a huge ordeal that now involves many people. On Tuesday night, church was very emotional. Every member was crying, and there was a lot of arguing and accusations flying around the room. It was very tense. Please pray for this church. If this problem is not resolved, it could destroy the church. Nobody wants to take the blame for anything, and they are too proud to admit that they are wrong, or to apologuze to anyone. One of the big problems as well, is that because they all live so close together, there really isn't any way to avoid each other, so if one member sees another member talking with someone, they are automatically assuming it's about them etc... It is just not a good situation.

Eight of our older children from Apalina also went to the Adventist camp this week. However, they were not few very well aparently, and several of them went climbing on the rocks near the camp to pick berries because they were hungry, and Bianca fell and hit her head and had to be taken to the Targu Mures hospital by helicopter. Last I heard, they think she is going to be just fine, but the parents in Apalina are VERY angry at the Adventist because of this incident. Attila said that unfortunately for us, Bianca probably will not come to our camp, and we may have some problems with other parents. Hopefully everything will be fine, and no one will be injured at our camp so that we can maintain the trust of the people.

We had our halfway party on Thursday instead of Friday because if worked better for some of the people coming, and we were able to play Phase 10, finally! Attila won and he was ecstatic. :) I didn't realize just how LONG of a card game that was until we played it with 6 people. It takes FOREVER. But we loved it. We made grilled cheese for dinner, and served that cake we bought with the rum flavor in it so we didn't have to eat it haha - it was a really fun night. It is so amazing to be able to call people up when we have free nights and invite them over to the apartment - just like we would do back home. We live here. We live in Romania.

Katie and I briefly talked today about how much it is going to hurt when we leave. Neither one of us is really ready to talk about it, I think. We are homesick sometimes, and we want to see our families, but this week, both of us experienced that first pain of the thought of leaving. We have friends here. Real friends that we know well and love. Not only have we been completely immersed in a culture vastly different from our own, we've been given the opportunity to live a new life here. To share in experiences with new people, and to grow with and be involved with lives that will soon be a world away from us. When we go home we will have best friends on the other side of the world. And that is why it hurt this week to think about leaving. But I know that if God wills for me to return, that my friends will be here waiting, because they tell me all the time, "I wait you. I wait you when you come back."